Cha Cha Cha Changes!

I am hesitating writing this post out of fear that I am about to jinx a good thing.  But…. we have been seeing some really amazing changes in B recently.  I am talking BIG changes. Things that, if they continue to happen, are going to let me breathe a sigh of relief, but more importantly, let B have more enjoyment in life.

B began attending an autism day treatment program, 2 days per week, a few months back.  The first week he thought it was great.  During the second week, he figured out they had high expectations for him and he starting fighting tooth and nail about going.  For the next few weeks, we were persistent in getting him there and his teachers were persistent in following his plan.

Now, only months later, he is a changed little boy.  We cannot believe the things we are seeing.  And now because I am a proud mama, I am going to share a few examples.

Example One

At his mainstream preschool, his special ed teacher fills out a sheet with him at the end of each day.  There is a box for each activity, along with little pictures of the expectations for good behavior for each activity.  For the past 4 class sessions he has received smiley faces for all activities, save two days when he received straight faces at arrival time.  That is a huge success for him, and gives me hope that he is going to be OK next year in kindergarten.

Example Two

We also receive a note each day from his day treatment program.  On that note, B circles an emotion(s) about how he felt that day, and the activities he did in each area for the day.  The teacher also provides a short note at the bottom about his day.  Yesterday she wrote that B requested a sensory break during hello group because he was feeling too excited.  Another huge success!

He recognized his feeling and realized it was not appropriate for that setting.  He left the room for a few minutes with a room helper to give his senses a break and he had a great remainder of the day.

Example Three

B loves going to the indoor play areas.  Since we live in a cold environment, it is a good escape during the winter months.  Recently, we figured out that going to the PlayLand at McDonald’s is much more enjoyable during the breakfast hours.  There are fewer kids, less noise and no happy meals, thus no toys.

Last weekend, after a week of pretty brutal cold, we decided to pack up the kids and have some McDonald’s breakfast at PlayLand.  When we arrived we did not get out of the car before explaining our expectations for behavior.  We reminded B of the rules and also reminded him that first we would eat and then he could play.

We got in the building.  E went up to order some food and I took the boys in.  B went and picked a table, took off his jacket and shoes and sat down.  Without a single reminder.  He sat nicely at the table waiting for food.  During that time there were two moms, each with two boys, eating in the PlayLand.  The boys were all acting awful and the moms were just yelling across the room instead of actually disciplining them.

There were a few moments when I saw B’s eyes change and I thought I was going to lose him, but he held strong! No behavior modeling, no complaints about eating first, nothing.  I was amazed! He ate a great breakfast and then played nicely, using an indoor voice, for over an hour.  He needed a few reminders, but quickly corrected his behaviors each time.  I had to double check that I had the right child!

I am so proud of my boy.  He is going to be OK.  There will still be tough days, no doubt, but we are turning a corner.  My husband and I have found ourselves giving each other that look with mouths agape in amazement and our hearts swelling with pride a lot lately.  We are changing and change is good.

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1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. Danielle
    Mar 09, 2011 @ 14:56:51

    This whole post left me with a huge smile on my face. Maybe today would be a good day to reread it! **Hugs**

    Are things still going this good with B?

    Reply

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