Graduation Week!

This is a week full of graduations for our B.  On Monday, I attended his preschool graduation and today he is graduating from his Autism Day Treatment program.   It is bittersweet.  He has come so far that I am afraid to let go of the amazing people in his life that have helped him to grow and learn so much during the past year.  Below is an email I sent to the staff at his Day Treatment program today.

I wanted to email to express my thanks for all of the hard work that you have put in with B over the past seven months. However, to just say thank you does not even begin to show the gratitude that we, as a family, feel towards all of the great people at F_____.

It was just over a year ago that we received B’s “education autism” identification. In that moment, I could not see the future. My heart was completely broken. I could not imagine what this would mean for us. B had always been so “ahead” in so many aspects that when he started falling behind in some areas it was completely foreign to us; we were totally blindsided. But, we knew we had to pick up our chins and get him the services he needed because there was just one short year until kindergarten started.

When we went through the process of having B evaluated at F_____, one of the recommendations was attending Day Treatment. For us, it was a no-brainer. After hearing about the program from the evaluation team and visiting the Day Treatment facilities, we could see that this would be a great opportunity for B to work on his skills.

Fast forward one year, to the date, of receiving B’s education autism identification and I am sitting at a kindergarten transition meeting getting one of the best compliments I have recieved as a parent. B’s preschool case manager began the meeting by describing B to the transition team. She started by telling the team, “…I literally get goosebumps when I talk about B because he has made such amazing progress this year.” Wow, talk about a proud parent moment.

We could not have got to this point without the help of the staff at F_____. You have helped B learn and refine so many great skills. The progress we have seen at F_____, in preschool, in our home and out in public is astonishing. He has grown and learned so much. I can see the future now and I absolutely know in my heart that B is going to succeed. He is going to succeed in school, he is going to succeed at making friends, he is going to grow into the wonderful, caring, funny young man I always pictured him to be. It will always be work, but it is going to be OK. No, it is going to be great!

So, thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have changed our lives so much in such a short period of time. You will all be missed very much, but you will not soon be forgotten in our house.

I am shedding many tears today.  Happy, joy filled tears.  Today is a good day.